For quite a few years now, the self development market has been doing what it can to make people realise they are not victims – to let them find that they have an influence on the world. But, in recent decades, so many individuals are conditioned to see themselves as victims.
This is mainly due to what is often referred to as’identity politics’, and that is where just about everybody is put into two classes. Someone is subsequently either going to be an oppressed victim or they’ll be an oppressive perpetrator.
The Departure of the Person Not only will this stop someone from having the ability to see others as individuals, it will also prevent them from having the ability to view themselves as someone.
On the plus side, seeing the world this manner will stop this individual from having to use their mind as much.
So, though having a victim mentality was generally viewed as something negative thanks in part to the self development business, it’s become something that’s often viewed as something positive thanks to conditioning in the schooling system and the mainstream press.
Some folks would say that this is the result of’Cultural Marxism’, but, whatever the reason is, it’s apparent that certain men and women are often encouraged to view themselves as victims in the present world. Whenever someone has a victim mindset, they can see themselves as being a human being. The reason they will feel superior to others is they will feel that – unlike the men and women that are oppressing people – they’re not’oppressing’ anyone.
They aren’t likely to feel that certain men and women are empowered human beings that do not need to oppress anybody to fulfil their needs; this isn’t a dynamic that will exist in their mind. The men and women that are empowered are then likely to be thrown in the same box as the men and women who do oppress others, and these individuals will be immoral in contrast.
A Number of Benefits
This does not mean that their needs will not be fulfilled, however, and this is because their victim status will probably allow them to get things without needing to give anything in return. Being a victim is then likely to let them experience control in an underhand way.
They won’t have to work for anything; they will qualify to have just about anything they need from the men and women that are allegedly holding them back. It will be like an invisible force is different, and that this force is controlling every facet of their life.
A Quantity of Similarities
However, no matter whether someone has bought into identity politics or simply feels like a victim, they’re unlikely believe they’ve much an effect on their life. Consequently, it will likely be normal for them to feel helpless, helpless, frustrated and angry, among other things.
They may be accustomed to spending time with those that are delighted to walk and to completely disregard their needs. If they’re in a relationship, they may be with somebody who emotionally abuses themand, if they aren’t, they may have been with people like this previously.
In regards to their career – that is when they have one – they may have a job that’s deeply unfulfilling. However, although they do drains them, it might be viewed as the only option that’s available to them.
If they’re on the opposite side of the fence, so to speak, and have not been able to have work, they could think that the world is attempting to hold them back. Something out there’s then not permitting them to get ahead.
One is then likely to be simply an observer of the reality, meaning that they won’t play a role in the way they experience life. They will be one individual who shows up in every experience they have, but this will not matter.
Their ideas, feelings and what they think about the world and themselves, together with their behavior, will be immaterial. And what is going to validate this outlook is they are most likely to spend time with those who experience life in a similar manner.
The reason someone like this considers they don’t have an impact on their reality is probably due to the fact that they’re out of touch with their inner world and are attached to their thoughts. If they could detach from their thoughts and to get in contact with what is occurring within them, they might have the ability to see how their outside world is mirroring back what’s occurring in their inner world.
It’s not they are only an observer of the reality; they’re in fact playing a significant part in the way they experience life.
though it’s not likely to be empowering for them to experience life this manner, it is very likely to be what feels secure at a deeper level.
If they were to return in their childhood years, they might that is was not safe for them to express themselves. This would have induced them to associate staying little with being secure and it would have put them up to feel comfortable with being treated poorly.
In regards to letting go of a victim mentality, an individual might want to reach out for outside support. This is something which may be provided by the aid of a therapist or a healer.